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16 Sep 2020 13:16

If you won the lottery, what surgeries/treatments would you have?

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7 Sep 2020 14:42

Long-shot: My employer might be moving my job & I from England to Ontario ... WTF do I do about transitioning?

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My work (England, UK) is opening a new office in Canada (Ontario) and I've been offered a promotion and the amazing job of leading a team there. I'm 99% sure that I'm going to accept.

I'm socially fully transitioned (all paperwork, passport, etc.) and on T-blockers & Estrogen medication, as well as having laser hair removal & speech therapy. I'm also on the waiting list for bottom surgery.

I know it's a LONG shot, but does any one have any experience of immigrants continuing their transition? Or know any resources I can access which would give advice?

I've read about the OHIP, but as I'll be on a work visa I'd be ineligible for the first six months, but as it doesn't cover prescription drugs would that matter?


7 Sep 2020 13:58

Long-shot: My employer might be moving my job & I to Canada ... WTF do I do about transitioning?

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My work is opening a new office in Canada (Ontario) and I've been offered a promotion and the amazing job of leading a team there. I'm 99% sure that I'm going to accept.

However, I'm currently under the care of the Nottingham GIC, I've been on hormones for about 2 years (most of that time privately), am in the middle of hair removal and speech therapy, and am on the waiting list for surgery (although I'm not in a rush). I am also socially fully transitioned (all paperwork, passport, etc.).

I know it's a LONG shot, but does any one have any experience of emigrating and continuing their transition? Or know any resources I can access which would give advice? /r/transgendercanada doesn't look a good place to ask!


2 Sep 2020 07:58

WYR be able to teleport or always have a minimum of £25 in your wallet

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Your teleport will never be in to anything solid.

£25, or the equivalent local currency, will respawn every time you open your wallet.


17 Aug 2020 17:30

I just unsubscribed from GenderGP

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I've been accepted in to the care of Nottingham GIC! Had my first voice training session today, woop woop!

Referred in May 2017 for the curious.


12 Aug 2020 11:09

Other than in front of Cinderella's Castle, where are photogenic places to do a marriage proposal in the four parks?

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You can include places other than the four parks I guess, if there's a particularly lovely spot at Fantasia Golf I've not thought of!


26 Jul 2020 09:46

If humans had nine lives, how different would the world be?

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15 Jul 2020 11:31

I'm looking forward to going back; 1,039 days to go!

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8 Jun 2020 15:49

WYR be able to see through Physical things (clothes, walls, doors, etc), or be able to see through Figurative things (lies, false promises, fake feelings, etc)?

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21 May 2020 17:05

Sale now on

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20 May 2020 11:50

WYR go on a really fun water slide, or eat a really nice meal

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"really fun", and "really nice" are based on your own feelings & likes.

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23 Apr 2020 14:56

[Discussion] What is the weirdest thing you've ever witnessed at Walt Disney World?

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Be it by a guest, cast memeber, or even a ride, what wonderfully odd things have you seen?


4 Apr 2020 18:48

Barbados, 2017

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6 Mar 2020 13:55

"We would like to invite you for an appointment at the Nottingham Center for Transgender Health"

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These words should make me so happy, but I'm not, I'm upset. Why? Because they were prefixed with "Dear [Dead Name]". I changed my name over a year ago, including my NHS records, I have a whole new NHS number for my true gender, all of this I told them about, but still, this. sigh


14 Feb 2020 09:25

Can anyone recommend a coffee machine that grinds beans and works with Alexa?

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10 Jan 2020 13:09

If Russia had somehow landed a man on The Moon before the US, what effects (if any) would it have had on the space race and modern-day space exploration?

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31 Dec 2019 14:08

Ready to begin?

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23 Dec 2019 08:34

Center Parcs UK Official Transgender Policy

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OK, so I wrote to Center Parcs asking what their policy is regarding communal changing rooms, and wanted to share thier response.


Good morning,

I'm wondering if you could tell me what your official policy is with transgender guests visiting your gendered changing rooms at the pool, sports hall and Aqua Sana please?

Kind regards, Izwe


Hi Izwe

Thank you for your email which has been forwarded for my attention and response.

I would like to offer reassurance that we have a number of transgender guests at Center Parcs and sometimes they ask for advice or support so that they feel comfortable during their time with us. Our approach has always been to treat each guest as an individual and try to do the best we can to help. It is our aim to ensure all guests are included and can enjoy the full Aqua Sana experience with consideration for all. I’m sure you will appreciate that we must consider all, we talk openly with our guests and in some instances we may need to ask for compromise on the grounds of consideration for other guests.

I do hope that the above explains how we practically and respectfully handle such situations.

Kind regards

Clare Kowalski
Senior Guest Services Executive


Thank you for your response.

May I ask for clarification please. Assuming that a transgender man was in the mens changing room, and a male guest found this uncomfortable, how would you resolve this situation?


Hi Izwe

To be totally honest, we have never had cause to call upon an official policy as we have always accommodated requests from our guests. If the need to ask for compromise should arise then we must and will act within the Equality Act.

As explained previously, our aim is to ensure all guests can enjoy the full Aqua Sana experience with consideration and respect for all.

Kind reagrds

Clare Kowalski
Senior Guest Services Executive


10 Dec 2019 12:35

Post-vaginoplasty-surgery, do you still get that feeling of having an errection?

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9 Dec 2019 11:39

How long do you think one should have to live as their identified gender before being "ready" for a GRC?

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Assuming that HRT, SRS, etc. are not dependent on gaining a GRC.

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